tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5579531232076028661.post1915075493237882287..comments2023-08-07T06:02:33.091-07:00Comments on Anarchist Mom: four monthsanarchist momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07088530924671396321noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5579531232076028661.post-65334302797378058802008-03-25T18:47:00.000-07:002008-03-25T18:47:00.000-07:00It's hard to be the same mothers we were before ou...It's hard to be the same mothers we were <I>before</I> our babies died. I think we'll get there again. In time. That anybody should say anything about it, so soon after Myles died, is just not considerate or sensitive or even nice. It's hard for me to accept that my friends and family expect that same person back. Yet, I know that I am changed in ways I can't even describe. The assumption that I will not be changed by this, that I will eventually get over it and just be me again, is offensive to me sometimes. I wish they could <I>get</I> this.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry you are having a rough time. I'm waiting for a smooth patch myself. Four months is hard enough to take without the added worries you have.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02933776400434137451noreply@blogger.com